No. It's what some people prioritize, sure, but it's never the main thing (or atleast it isn't supposed to be)

I'm in the same boat as you, sex just doesn't sound that appealing at all.

If i were to be in a relationship i don't want it to be the case.

Depends on the kind of relationship.

No, skipping rocks by the creek is.

No idea, I've never been in a relationship my entire life. If it would, then such relationship would be doomed from the start to me. Physical contact is repulsive.

If you do the long math, relationships are pretty cringe.

Hook-up culture is very prevalent in some countries, you don't even need a proper relationship to get sex. I just find it disgusting, but to each their own I guess.

Originally posted by ZAP:

If you do the long math, relationships are pretty cringe.

Not if your getting money out of it. Then its awesome (for you).

It's a sin to talk about this in public.

Originally posted by Shodan:

I literally couldn't care less 99.99% of the time and that's the last reason why I want to have a girlfriend. I'm starting to feel like I'm completely naive and out of touch, like it's an incredibly common thing and as normal as a handshake, also the biggest purpose of being in a relationship. I really hope this isn't the case or I'm ♥♥♥♥♥♥... figuratively.

some people will place a much heavier weight on sexual compatibility.

i want to say that i don't, but i do. incompatibility, or perhaps other 'interests' that don't align can trash a relationship really fast for me. however i carry an uncommon set of characteristics, and so the answer is a bit anomalous.

but, one can find partners who match them. there are many that will place a similar weight on that part of a relationship as you do. so really try to find someone with similarities in that department, and you know, during the courtship, these are questions that should be asked, and painstakingly clarified. if you have an excellent communication channel, you can avoid those 'less desirable' moments that can pop up later.

Originally posted by Delta (EB):

It's a sin to talk about this in public.

What's a sin is to not try to inform peoples of stuff that matters.

Originally posted by Shodan:

it's an incredibly common, casual thing and as normal as a handshake

lol how did you came up with this?Sex is incredibly rare, not normal at all. Only a very few minority of people have sex. Well i m speaking about heterosexual sex. Ofc is homosex very common but that's another story

Originally posted by Zένø™ 👌:

Originally posted by Shodan:

it's an incredibly common, casual thing and as normal as a handshake

lol how did you came up with this?Sex is incredibly rare, not normal at all. Only a very few minority of people have sex. Well i m speaking about heterosexual sex. Ofc is homosex very common but that's another story

I just get that impression, I guess. I can't remember specific reasons why anymore, but they just piled up with time. How did you come up with what you said though?

Sex is sex either you get it or you don't.

Relationships feel more valuable when there is actual love felt

I don't think I could do physical stuff. I did that because I felt pressured to, at like, 18. It wasn't worth it. Other person was like 20 and didn't wanna do it, then changed their horny mind like two weeks later

I never enjoyed the physical stuff. I don't think it's worth it

I think it's better if you navigate life in such a way that allows you to be single forever lol