Men should like how the dating world is rn actually

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Sugarcube Battery 11 Jul @ 12:36am

Excluding gold diggers….

If a woman picks you nowadays, she’s genuinely attracted to you. Not because she doesn’t have the rights to own a property and needs a man for it. Not because she’s pressured by her parents to get married. Not because there’s societal pressure to get a husband. She just likes you for you.

And not even all parts of the world have this right now. We are the lucky few that gets to experience the freedom to choose our own partners and for love.

I wouldn’t trade this to go back to the old days. I don’t get this negativity.

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salamander 11 Jul @ 12:50am

as a feminine left wing femboy who dates women and men, the dating world is fine for me. i feel like its the worst for the masculine right wing guys. which, i get it, that sucks. but at what point do you sacrifice your ideals for companionship? but honestly. not doing so is strong. i love you ok? ok? ok.

Sugarcube Battery 11 Jul @ 12:51am

Originally posted by salamander:
as a feminine left wing femboy who dates women and men, the dating world is fine for me. i feel like its the worst for the masculine right wing guys. which, i get it, that sucks. but at what point do you sacrifice your ideals for companionship? but honestly. not doing so is strong. i love you ok? ok? ok.

Is it even that bad for them? A lot of women including myself still like masculine men. We just don’t like ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.

♱ 11 Jul @ 12:52am

Originally posted by Sugarcube Battery:
Originally posted by salamander:
as a feminine left wing femboy who dates women and men, the dating world is fine for me. i feel like its the worst for the masculine right wing guys. which, i get it, that sucks. but at what point do you sacrifice your ideals for companionship? but honestly. not doing so is strong. i love you ok? ok? ok.

Is it even that bad for them? A lot of women including myself still like masculine men. We just don’t like ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.

no its not even bad for them, this is like the easiest period in dating history for men

Fat Redditor 11 Jul @ 12:54am

Originally posted by ♱:
Originally posted by Sugarcube Battery:

Is it even that bad for them? A lot of women including myself still like masculine men. We just don’t like ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.
no its not even bad for them, this is like the easiest period in dating history for men

This is the easiest period in dating history for the top 20% of men*

SympliKrazi 11 Jul @ 12:55am

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Sugarcube Battery 11 Jul @ 1:00am

Originally posted by ♱:
Originally posted by Sugarcube Battery:

Is it even that bad for them? A lot of women including myself still like masculine men. We just don’t like ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.
no its not even bad for them, this is like the easiest period in dating history for men

Many make it sound like we are in the worst era for dating lol

Lora Grim 11 Jul @ 1:01am

Men are upset by it because most of them are crappy people and stand little to no chance at gaining the attention of a woman who can think for herself.

SophieSkyrim1984 11 Jul @ 1:02am

Well, for a guy in his early 40's, I would say it is tougher as social media has made it so hard to even consider dating. It has ruined it for older men and made out to be a problem and a drawer, rather than exciting and a want

Wild Child 11 Jul @ 1:04am

I think it's difficult for some people to meet without using apps or social media.

salamander 11 Jul @ 1:07am

Originally posted by Sugarcube Battery:
Originally posted by salamander:
as a feminine left wing femboy who dates women and men, the dating world is fine for me. i feel like its the worst for the masculine right wing guys. which, i get it, that sucks. but at what point do you sacrifice your ideals for companionship? but honestly. not doing so is strong. i love you ok? ok? ok.

Is it even that bad for them? A lot of women including myself still like masculine men. We just don’t like ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.

but a lot of such folk ARE right wing, i feel as though as a woman you know this. most of the men who you have declined have right wing ideals, yes?

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Sugarcube Battery 11 Jul @ 1:12am

Originally posted by salamander:
Originally posted by Sugarcube Battery:

Is it even that bad for them? A lot of women including myself still like masculine men. We just don’t like ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.

but a lot of such folk ARE right wing, i feel as though as a woman you know this. most of the men who you have declined have right wing ideals, yes?

Well, when I say right winged, there are two kinds. One is the western / American kind that most people know. And there’s the Asian kind where I live which is way more conservative than the western counterpart.

I’m fine with western right wingers to a certain degree. Religious is a dealbreaker for me. On western political scale, I tend to date a bit right leaning or centrist or a bit left leaning.

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salamander 11 Jul @ 1:14am

Originally posted by Sugarcube Battery:
Originally posted by salamander:

but a lot of such folk ARE right wing, i feel as though as a woman you know this. most of the men who you have declined have right wing ideals, yes?

Well, when I say right winged, there are two kinds. One is the western / American kind that most people know. And there’s the Asian kind where I live which is way more conservative than the western counterpart.

I’m fine with western right wingers to a certain degree. Religious is a dealbreaker for me. On western political scale, I tend to date a bit right leaning or centrist or a bit left leaning.

that makes sense to me, yes. the right wingers in my country are usually heavily religious fundamentalists with extreme views towards women, in usa or other countries it may not always be as bad.

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Sugarcube Battery 11 Jul @ 1:15am

Originally posted by Lora Grim:
Men are upset by it because most of them are crappy people and stand little to no chance at gaining the attention of a woman who can think for herself.

What I think too. They are pissed that it’s not handed to them anymore.

Originally posted by SophieSkyrim1984:
Well, for a guy in his early 40's, I would say it is tougher as social media has made it so hard to even consider dating. It has ruined it for older men and made out to be a problem and a drawer, rather than exciting and a want

What do you mean? Aren’t women your age looking?

Originally posted by Wild Child:
I think it's difficult for some people to meet without using apps or social media.

Hobby time!

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Sugarcube Battery 11 Jul @ 1:16am

Originally posted by salamander:
Originally posted by Sugarcube Battery:

Well, when I say right winged, there are two kinds. One is the western / American kind that most people know. And there’s the Asian kind where I live which is way more conservative than the western counterpart.

I’m fine with western right wingers to a certain degree. Religious is a dealbreaker for me. On western political scale, I tend to date a bit right leaning or centrist or a bit left leaning.

that makes sense to me, yes. the right wingers in my country are usually heavily religious fundamentalists with extreme views towards women, in usa or other countries it may not always be as bad.

Where I live, I’m considered too liberal lol why I tend to date foreigners

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SophieSkyrim1984 11 Jul @ 1:18am

Neither right wing or left wing. When it comes too love and bond and communication, and a connection unbreakable. Neither wing should be a deal breaker. Two people should be happy and not change themselves because they listen to social media or others views. Be an investment in your own individuality and let the other person do the same and love will grow between each other.

This day and age of dating is this generations version of dating let us old folk have our old school dating approach

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