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Striker | القاسمي 1 Jul @ 4:31pm

Love hurts ?

I just fell in love — and everything feels perfect.
But deep down, a part of me whispers: what if it ends?
Not now, maybe not soon… but someday.

And I don’t know what terrifies me more —
losing her…
or knowing that losing her would shatter something in me I might never rebuild.

It’s strange, isn’t it?
That I’d rather have my heart ripped out in one brutal moment
than watch it quietly break piece by piece.

So I ask myself…
Which leaves a deeper scar — bruises on the skin, or cracks in the heart?
When it comes to true pain, is it the body that suffers… or the soul that remembers?

And if love must hurt,
what would you choose:
pain in your bones,
or a permanent scar on your heart?

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Lawh 1 Jul @ 4:38pm

Keep asking yourself why a few times, like 10 times.

You are filling a gap with that person, and you might have an issue with dealing with sadness. It's normal to feel lost after spending years with someone. It's also alright to feel sad after anything goes wrong. But the strength of that emotion shouldn't be crippling once you know what you're doing.

Sort yourself out as soon as possible, because that will make you a much more reliable partner as well. Experience the sadness and whatever that missing part in your is that you are using the other person to plug. Many times we find excuses to avoid the pain of facing our issues.

Yew Nough 1 Jul @ 4:38pm

Emotional pain disappears over time, as the mind learns to focus on new things

Learning to enjoy things when you have them and eventually let them go is part of being an adult.

bAd a!m 1 Jul @ 4:40pm

physical pain hurts more than other things

Striker | القاسمي 1 Jul @ 4:46pm

Originally posted by Yew Nough:
Emotional pain disappears over time, as the mind learns to focus on new things

Learning to enjoy things when you have them and eventually let them go is part of being an adult.

Maybe you're right… maybe emotional pain does fade with time. But I don’t know if it’s selfish of me or just human — I don’t want to let go of something that means so much to me. I’m not sure if it’s because I’m afraid of how much it will hurt me… or because I know that letting go might hurt her too. And that’s the part I can’t bear — not the pain itself, but the thought of causing it. Maybe being an adult means learning to let go… but does it also mean pretending it doesn’t matter?