People make mistakes, I know I make too many.

It's natural to question your intuition and how you perceive others, especially when you encounter negativity or feel let down.
Here's a balanced look at both possibilities:
Are people horrible?
Sometimes, people are unkind or self-centered: This is a reality, and it is possible to encounter individuals with these traits.
Cognitive biases can skew perceptions: These are mental shortcuts that can lead to judgments not based on objective facts. These can include:
Confirmation bias: Seeking information that confirms existing beliefs, even negative ones about others.
Halo effect: Judging someone based on a superficial trait can lead to skewed perceptions.
All-or-nothing thinking: Believing that if one thing goes wrong, then everything is bad, or someone is entirely "horrible".
External factors can influence behavior: People's actions can be influenced by stress, pressure, and personal struggles, which might manifest as negativity, according to
Does your intuition mislead you?
Intuition is powerful, but not perfect: "Gut feelings" are valuable, but not always accurate. It combines subconscious processing and emotional responses.
It can be confused with anxiety or fear: It's important to distinguish between genuine intuition and feelings driven by anxiety, insecurity, or past experiences.
Anxiety and overwhelm are often linked to fear, while intuition often brings a sense of certainty or calm, says Ashlee Greer.
Past trauma or negative experiences can lead to ignoring or mistrusting intuition, according to Ashlee Greer.
Intuition can be affected by physical and emotional state: Being tired, hungry, or stressed can negatively impact perception and make someone feel more critical of others.
Intuition can be developed and refined: Practicing self-reflection, mindfulness, and active listening can help someone better recognize and trust their intuition, according to New Horizons Recovery Centers.
What to do when struggling
Practice self-reflection: Examine feelings and thoughts. Determine if they are based on evidence or cognitive distortions.
Challenge negative self-talk: Replace negative thoughts with positive affirmations.
Focus on building self-confidence and self-trust: Identify strengths and acknowledge achievements. Set small, attainable goals to build a sense of competence, says Workee.
Improve communication skills: Active listening and clear communication can help prevent misunderstandings.
Build a supportive network: Surround yourself with people who uplift and make you feel good.
Take care of physical and mental health: Ensure enough sleep, nutritious food, and stress management.
Consider professional support: If feelings persist and significantly impact life, therapy can help address underlying issues like anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem.
Remember that not everyone will be a perfect fit, and that is acceptable. By working on self-trust, challenging negative perceptions, and focusing on healthy relationships, it's possible to navigate these feelings and build a more positive outlook.

I get it. Too many times have I made "friends" who turned out to be two-faced bastards who only kept me around as someone to laugh at. I'd constantly get blown off when asking to play games with them, I'd be ignored, mocked, even insulted on occasion but for the longest time I didn't know any better since this was all I knew, this is what I thought real friendship was.

Now I'm just left with an intense hatred of almost everyone I encounter online because chances are they're no different from these scumbags.

Originally posted by Psychonaut:

Is everyone horrible or does my intuition just suck?

if one has never 'trained' their intuition before, then its not that the intuition is poor, just that it is too inexperienced.

one should pay attention, and see if they keep getting attracted to the same types of deleterious individuals, if that is the case, then it's probably time to change oneself, develop one's intuition further, and then try again. 👍

we are taught to be so open and caring, so easy to take advantage of, and there are a lot of people out there now, who are going to use every advantage they can find.

its best to try to avoid opportunistic individuals, only out for themselves. learning to recognize those signs will greatly aid one's 'intuition'

i am sorry that your experiences with other humans have been poor, but no, everyone is not horrible. peoples are flawed, they make mistakes, they are sometimes doing stupid or cruel or selfish things. sometimes they grow and become better, sometimes they fall to ink.

but please, continue to plant meat seeds. give to your brothers and sisters love and affection, and yourself as well. i love you ok? meat with ten thousand eyes. ok? ok.

Everyone have horrible part. You just have to choose which can be tolerate and which are not.

People get boring and your brain wants you to move on to new people. Otherwise you end up trapped.

Title response: probably a bit of both

Originally posted by Psychonaut:

I always think "hey this person seems nice" or is really funny and it leads to a friendship or a relationship and then they turn out to be a horrible person. I've seen so much cheating, betrayal, and ♥♥♥♥♥♥ up ♥♥♥♥ that friends should never do. Never trusting my intuition again. Maybe the more charismatic someone is it just means they'll be better at manipulating and taking advantage of people. Idk some people are truly monsters. I like to put myself in others shoes to try and understand their situation and actions, but if I was them I would feel like an evil person, there's no excuses for the stuff they've done.

Could be your social circles.

I've noticed that certain social circles seem to be more drama heavy than others.

Originally posted by Hammer Of Evil:

Originally posted by Psychonaut:

Is everyone horrible or does my intuition just suck?

if one has never 'trained' their intuition before, then its not that the intuition is poor, just that it is too inexperienced.

one should pay attention, and see if they keep getting attracted to the same types of deleterious individuals, if that is the case, then it's probably time to change oneself, develop one's intuition further, and then try again. 👍

You are right, I'm learning what red flags to watch out for now, was definitely a learning experience.

Originally posted by Acetyl:

Title response: probably a bit of both

True that

Neat an actual, actual has occurred.