Let's hope I won't have one for a long time, I'm not ready for that ♥♥♥♥ 😂

I’d hope that was obvious to people.

If you have kids, you don’t ever get to put yourself first anymore. Even when they’re adults.

You must prioritize your kids over yourself until you die, without question.

If you can’t or won’t do that, you’re not a good parent and shouldn’t have had children.

Originally posted by Chaosolous:

I’d hope that was obvious to people.

If you have kids, you don’t ever get to put yourself first anymore. Even when they’re adults.

You must prioritize your kids over yourself until you die, without question.

If you can’t or won’t do that, you’re not a good parent and shouldn’t have had children.

Won't happen, even when I have kids I'm the VIP.

only for the first few years when they require around the clock care. as they get older, socialise and get friends and playdates and such you will have more freedom.

Originally posted by One Shot:

Then it’s not your own freedom anymore.

after reading that, i lost brain cells~

nah sugar, kids don’t steal your freedom they just throw a wild, messy party with it xD sometimes you gotta dance in the chaos to feel truly alive

it is, you just don't want to take responsbility for your own feelings.

sadly no mpreg
im going to have to adopt

I dont so it doesn't affect me

have been wanting like 6 of them for over 2 decades now.
to bad woman that are not of the insane "I want no kids type" are a rare find.

as for freedom. if by that you mean, not having to consider other people in your life's needs and wants.. it's overrated/

If money wasn’t an issue I would have 1,000,000,000 kids and make my own army of Mini-Dax.

Just let your first one make a traineeship as a kindergarten teacher. >_>