First of all, how come you're being more agressive, selfish and not caring about peoples Emotions from time to time?

(First of all, think of all those people who are nice, caring, and loving) And I would want you to think this.. What if there heart was broken? And they became the worst people possible? Can you relate to those heartbroken people? Or is there something else in mind?


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Thank you!! It's warming my heart that you'd go out of your way to help a stranger, I'm currently on vacation, but I'll be home in 2-3 days, we can talk more then!

Originally posted by Smiley:

Thank you!! It's warming my heart that you'd go out of your way to help a stranger, I'm currently on vacation, but I'll be home in 2-3 days, we can talk more then!

You're Welcome, my Friend! I'm glad that you accept this message from someone like me.

We'll Get chatting once I'm back home, I'll send ya a message.

if its near enough for you go sit up trolltunga for a while and just focus on you! theres plenty of epic places there you can just sit and chill
once youre back in civilization people will notice the difference and youll find they will approach you , thats your cue to either be who you want to be or.....be eitr

beste hilsener

Most of the time when conflict springs, it comes down to character mismatches, competition, personal divergent interests and misunderstandings. The more conflicts one finds himself/herself in, the more one's personality embitters from the stress brought upon - and begins to mimic exactly that bad behavior which stressed him/her, as a defense mechanism. A way to overcome that embitterment may be to distance oneself from said problems/situations - "just let it go" point of view as in avoid situations and people who're stressing/bad for your mental health. I would also suggest, beside said distancing, to "assume the worst but act the best" and the fairest you can in any given situation - thus eluding disappointment and being reconciled with one's rectitude. For that build a core of moral principles and stick to it as in "behave when alone like you were in the presence of many". And, of course, surround yourself with people whose way of thinking is akin to your moral code.

Plus don't take the online medium seriously - especially game chats, comments sections and forums - most of the internet is batshit crazy

PS: read articles and books from renowned scientists and peer-reviewed authors about topics of your interest, an endorsed (fact checked) opinion makes all the difference.

Originally posted by Smiley:

Ok, how do I go about this...
Hi! I just joined this group (which is really freaking awesome btw) and when I was reading all of these kind comments on all of these different discussions, it made me realise;
I've become a real dick.
I know, it might be selfish for me to bring a burden on you kind people, I really don't wanna be a bother. But y'see, I used to be a really kind and positive person, never showing any signs of negativity, but now I've kinda changed.. I've become more agressive, and I end up not caring about people's emotions from time to time... I don't wanna be like that, and as such I come here, to this group, on my knees.
Please, if anyone has any advice on how I can kinda "return" to my old self, a more positive and kind indivdual, I would be so grateful!
~ Smiley

well smiley it all depends on your experiences and your environment. if everyone around you acts bad your brain may think thats normal and adapt to it. i can relate to this because i used to be a real kind kid but bullying, stress and the general attitude of others towards me warped me in the sense that i became negative around the things that irritate or threaten my peace or the peace of those around me. i know its troubling to think of how aggressive and hallow youv become to those around you but the fact that you regret it and more importantly admit your fault's is a sure sign that your not too far gone to turn back.