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KIND GAMERS KIND
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A question..
Hey there!

I stumbled upon the group and I'm positively suprised how many kind people found together, discussing with each other, and being nice to each other.

That's why i want to take the chance to ask about how you achieve that.

Having a borderline, because of parental violence and partly growing up in a protectory (i believe its called like that in english) and hospital. It's sometimes hard for me to stay kind, sometimes it almost "hurts". I'm done with the past, i'm not "suffering" too much from my state, live together with my girlfriend and have a (very) small group of friends.

The last time i went to hospital, i promised myself to never lie about anything again, i don't want to hide myself or suffer from others without resisting it. I would say im mostly kind but the thing is: 95% of the time i hate myself for being nice to strangers and smiling, i can't describe it myself, it just feels wrong. I often help people (almost can't say no) but only very rarely it feels "good". Don't get me wrong I don't want to help to feel good for myself, but i don't think it's supposed to feel... bad / awkward / depressing.

I'm 25 right now and well, im disappointed in humanity i guess. Europe is becoming a cesspool of racists. One of the US President Canditates is a , pardon me, rascist ape that should be looked at as a bad example and not as an idol. There are still people in the world who fight religous wars in 2016. There are even way too much people that still believe the global warming isn't real. How do you stay calm and kind to humans with that in mind? It just makes me angry. Sure not everyone is to blame for all that, but there are racists, rapists, drug dealers, murderer etc in the world.
Here in germany racism becomes a real issue again. And i can't understand how people, especially in germany , and with our past, be so FUCKING (pardon) stupid. Just typing about it makes me rage and wanting to punch a wall. They even think they are right with their "portect our race" and "germans are better people then non-germans".

Bearing that all in mind, how to you stay kind when talking to people in everyday life? Because i really want to, I know how great it feels to have supportive and kind people around you, and always looked up to them.Like: I know it's ridiculous stupid to be mean to strangers, as you don't know them to begin with, but it#s hard for me to do.

Any advise would be a lot to me.
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