Good morning, justyagi
We from the Swiss Society of Urology have received your questions sent by email and are pleased to answer them:

1) Yes, 8 cm is considered small. We recommend surgical intervention;

2) No, it is not common for a condom to fit too loosely. There is no PP size, the size is standard;

3) Although 8 cm is very small, the partner can reach orgasm during intercourse. If this is not the case in your relationships, as you mentioned, it could be due to a lack of ability on your part;

4) No, you cannot have a prostate exam; it is only for people over 50 years old. Please do not insist;

5) Strong attraction to people of the same sex can indeed be a strong indication of homosexuality.

Best regards,
We are available for further questions!