We'll start with the simple steps and get to the complex ones later on. But to start always be hygienic, its simple but its true. Shower often, i shower at least once a day however if you are trying to save money or don't like showering once every two days is fine but once every three days is pushing it slightly. Brush your teeth at least once a day and go to the dentist every 6 months just to be safe, chew gum often if you want to make sure your breath is fresh, although that's not a requirement but it helps, or maybe i just like gum. Smelling good is one thing but being clean makes you feel good which can make you more confident, this will help down the line.

Fitness is very important however do not feel as if you need to be an Arnold Schwarzenegger type bodybuilder. Stay fit and get out often but you do not need to force yourself to be some sort of overly buff male Adonis, large muscles can only get you so far so do not expect that being strong will guarantee you anything because it wont. I strongly recommend taking up walking or hiking, getting outside is more important than dropping as much weight as you can in as little time. Being outside is good for your body health and mental health both of which are very important, and while you will most likely get fitter faster in the gym getting outside does wonders for you.

This is the most important aspect of the guide so pay attention. No matter how fit you are or what you look like you can always be carried by a good personality. Always be kind and nice, courteous and polite, don't be hateful or rude, and don't be stubborn or prude. Don't be racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic or anything like that because then you're just a ♥♥♥♥ and no one likes a ♥♥♥♥. Don't overreact or have a bad temper, and if you make a mistake no matter how small or big it is always apologise and learn from it, people grow every day and everyone evolves and changes at every point in their life, endeavour to be a better person every day then you were yesterday.

Most importantly be yourself! Do not act as if you are someone you aren't because people can tell, you will be more confident and more enjoyable to be around if you are authentically yourself. And if you're authentic self is racist or rude or whatever maybe you should take a step back and do some introspecting into whether you're a good person or not, no matter what you used to think or say you can always amend for your mistakes and become a better person.

Have interests and hobbies, you don't have to play sports or do martial arts or any of the other typical interests or hobbies but its good to find things you are really interested in, passionate people who have deep interests and interesting hobbies are entertaining and interesting to other people. Being passionate about something is always a good thing.

This is extremely important probably more so than any other section

Don't be a creep, keep your hands to yourself always and never touch anyone without their consent for ♥♥♥♥♥ sake, if you feel like someone doesn't want to talk to you or is trying to get away from you disengage yourself and let them go. Don't stare either its weird. If you are making someone uncomfortable leave them alone.

If you get up the courage to talk to someone approach with a reason, never approach someone and just hope you will randomly find something to talk about, approach with a topic of discussion in mind so that the worst case scenario is that you just have a short amicable conversation about something instead of being a creep.

Its not hard to be well behaved and not be a creep so as long as you don't ♥♥♥♥ it up you should be fine. ALWAYS BE RESPECTFUL KIND AND UNDERSTANDING!!!!!!

While some tomboys are into the sort of more dependant type they can take care of i still recommend having a job and being able to cook, clean and do all the other things required of someone who can live on their own. Have a job and work, learn to cook and take care of yourself, these are important life skills and they can make you more desirable as a partner as a lot of people don't really want to get married to someone who sits around and does ♥♥♥♥ all.

Patience is the final step, once you have followed all other steps, you're clean and you smell fine, you treat others kindly and with respect, you have interests and hobbies that you are passionate about, you are not overweight and get outside often and you know how to behave in a respectful and kind manner. Once you have nailed all of that its time to wait. Its no secret that most tomboys are lesbians so if you are a woman reading this guide then good on you! You should be completely fine, in fact you probably dont even need to follow half these steps and still find a tomboy girlfriend so you go on about their and go for it! If you are a man such as myself all you can do is wait, there is nothing you can do to change the fact that many are lesbian so all you can do is wait. Keep following those steps, stay clean, work hard, keep fit, get out and be kind and respectful, and of course always be working on yourself because you can always be better! So all you can do is wait and hope.

I hope you have enjoyed this guide and i hope this has helped you! Remember be kind and treat everyone well! And if you make a mistake learn and grow from it! Thats the key to always being a better person!