Is there a mod for radious that can tone down the AI a bit?

I m always getting rampant Wood Elves and Dwarfs, so I never get to face orks in the first place :(
What I wish for is a mod that makes the "good factions" like Bretonnia, Wood Elves, Dwarfs and the neutral ones not occupy enemy settlements (except from the player).

Whenever I reach a point where my empire is strong enough to expand, the world around me is not the same anymore sadly. Very boring and takes away the replay value IMO.

Dont know if this also happens in vanilla, but from the threads I found it does.