Originally posted by Chef G:

Im the Emperor currently and im married to Poppea Sabina and she kinda wack so i wanna cheat on her with someone else but i dont really know how to do that, i have good relations with alot of other women in the empire but i dont see any option to begin relationships with them.

affairs are only possible with married women due to various reasons,
it is a little bit random too, but high reltation is of course necessary.
also if you flirt with a woman, you usually get displayed if she feels attracted to you or not
so target the married women who are attracted by you (note that a woman well be more attracted to you if your charisma skill is higher)
so to become a lover of a woman you have two possibilities: either you ask her and you are lucky and she says yes or she asks you (this can happen randomly if you talk with her, but the last time you talked with her must be 24 hours past and its not possible during feasts)
with flirting you must be careful, you cannot simply raise the relation infinitly high, at some point you wont get more relation from flirting if she doesnt feel attracted enough to you

What I have noticed playing the game: whenever I really want to have a lover I usually dont get one, it simply happens, when it happens

Another thing is that the reputation of the woman matter: I recommend you to target woman who are adventurous or otherworldly, they are easier to get, while moralists are really hard to 'conquer'

Originally posted by BGMaxi:

Originally posted by Chef G:

Im the Emperor currently and im married to Poppea Sabina and she kinda wack so i wanna cheat on her with someone else but i dont really know how to do that, i have good relations with alot of other women in the empire but i dont see any option to begin relationships with them.

affairs are only possible with married women due to various reasons,
it is a little bit random too, but high reltation is of course necessary.
also if you flirt with a woman, you usually get displayed if she feels attracted to you or not
so target the married women who are attracted by you (note that a woman well be more attracted to you if your charisma skill is higher)
so to become a lover of a woman you have two possibilities: either you ask her and you are lucky and she says yes or she asks you (this can happen randomly if you talk with her, but the last time you talked with her must be 24 hours past and its not possible during feasts)
with flirting you must be careful, you cannot simply raise the relation infinitly high, at some point you wont get more relation from flirting if she doesnt feel attracted enough to you

What I have noticed playing the game: whenever I really want to have a lover I usually dont get one, it simply happens, when it happens

Another thing is that the reputation of the woman matter: I recommend you to target woman who are adventurous or otherworldly, they are easier to get, while moralists are really hard to 'conquer'

ok so can i like divorce my wife or do i only have to target married women?

Originally posted by Chef G:

Originally posted by BGMaxi:

affairs are only possible with married women due to various reasons,
it is a little bit random too, but high reltation is of course necessary.
also if you flirt with a woman, you usually get displayed if she feels attracted to you or not
so target the married women who are attracted by you (note that a woman well be more attracted to you if your charisma skill is higher)
so to become a lover of a woman you have two possibilities: either you ask her and you are lucky and she says yes or she asks you (this can happen randomly if you talk with her, but the last time you talked with her must be 24 hours past and its not possible during feasts)
with flirting you must be careful, you cannot simply raise the relation infinitly high, at some point you wont get more relation from flirting if she doesnt feel attracted enough to you

What I have noticed playing the game: whenever I really want to have a lover I usually dont get one, it simply happens, when it happens

Another thing is that the reputation of the woman matter: I recommend you to target woman who are adventurous or otherworldly, they are easier to get, while moralists are really hard to 'conquer'

ok so can i like divorce my wife or do i only have to target married women?

you can divorce her if you find out that she cheated you. Send a companion to spy on her, if he finds out she has a lover you can divorce