Crusader Kings III

Crusader Kings III

Notification when any courtier wants to leave
Reianor 21 Feb, 2022 @ 2:55am
Wondering spouses.
Could someone explain to me what the F is up with them?
My memory is fuzzy on this one, but isn't the whole pair supposed to stay put when one of them has a reason to?
I clearly recall that being the case in CK2. It's how I got my habit of filtering married people out when looking for people to invite to court.
But now I'm seeing all this wondering and it really gets to me.
I mean the wife of my heir and thus the future queen “has no reason to stay in court”? really? And she takes my grandkids with her when she runs off? WTF has PI been smoking lately?
Is this a bug or is that by design?
Is there a mod that prevents spouses from wondering off?
I think I recall seeing something like that before but now I can't find it.