An amulet of Mara is not needed for this follower. Just talk to her and ask her "is everything allright? ...", and the dialog options will lead you to the right path...

Nope there"s no chat option is everything alright...

Okay. If this option doesn't appear, you need to go further than level 100. But I'm very shure, you must talk to her. Try all chat options not lighted more than once.

The mod says shes not marryable just as best friend.

Ehmmm I want to marry sofia, but my relation level with her is only 45, she had been on 22 dongeons with me, she had killed more than 200 and I had spend more than 30 days with sofia, and the relation level hasnt changed!! need your help!!!

I had her relationship level well over 150 (give her expensive jewels and necklaces), had explored 11 dungeons and had about 200 kills with her by day 22 (She's a lot of fun to have around ;p). I had already exhausted all her dialogue options and one day, all of a sudden she says she doesn't want me finding another. That's your cue to marry. Just tell her you're interested and she'll take care of the details.

Having said that, I'm slightly disappointed. I took Sofia to meet her favorite daedric gods (Sheogorath and Sanguine) and she didn't peep a single line.

I was looking forward to see her awkwardly ask Sanguine for an autograph or something.

Update: If the option "Are you ok? You seem a little distracted" does not appear, chat about "You uh ... look nice" and wait unti "..." appears. So you will get the other options.
Btw my Sophia is now level 75 (work in progress) managed with the AFT.

my sophia is level 300 xD 1000 kills

I'm not getting the option. I have done all the dialodge and I've spent over 31 days with her killed 383 gone through 69 dungeons and her relationship lvl is 160

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I'm not getting the option. I have done all the dialodge and I've spent over 31 days with her killed 383 gone through 69 dungeons and her relationship lvl is 160

Have you tried to make a full reset (see decription)?

You can't marry her at all with an amulet of mara. Do you have dialogue that says, "Can I talk to you for a bit?" The option, "Would you be interested in marrying me?" should be in that set of dialogue if you've done all the other prerequisites. Keep in mind too, you have to clear 5 dungeons or nordic ruins, caves, etc.

She is not marriagable

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She is not marriagable

She is marrigeable, but not in a common way... ;-)

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She is not marriagable

She is marrigeable, but not in a common way... ;-)

Prove it, because the creator already said she isn't lol

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She is marrigeable, but not in a common way... ;-)

Prove it, because the creator already said she isn't lol

1. Marrigeable? I think you guys are looking for Marryable, and also, the creator said she couldn't be married. He MEANT in the normal amulent of mara way.