For example, I have a Hammer but in the menu to craft show like "one of" all options seems disabled

Also I have a Workbench and Capenter Bench in the word, also. The option craft show up off

You need to see if the Carpenter Bench was placed properly, you need to put it in the Build menu way when you rigth click in the world it will be in the menu. After that, I guess that the Carpenter will work properly.