Yeah, I generally do only one quest at a time, as I just pwn bandits all the time... What was supposed to happen, I think, was that you were supposed to dule the lord for the lady's hand, but since you had denounce on the same lord, the game tried to do two quests at once, and derped itself. That's why I tend to focus on finding a wife... though nobody wants to marry a female character... why is that? Is there a mod for that?