Feel free to ask about compatibility or report issues here, and I'll investigate.

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Talking compatibility is tough, mainly because most fans don't really know what's compatible and what isn't. They look on the Workshop kind of like a buffet table, grabbing this or that and creating what is, essentially, a new mod of their own concoction. If it loads, they think it's compatible. If it crashes, it clearly isn't.

Thing is, even if that concoction loads and plays, there are very possibly going to be issues as the files in the mods conflict... and the source of the issue isn't always what you think it might be.

So, a few thoughts when it comes to mixing LMF with other mods:

• If it's a mod that says it's 100% compatible with other mods, that probably means all its files are unique and won't conflict. If that's the case, it probably won't conflict with with LMF unless they do the same thing.
  
  
• Areas where LMF might conflict: marriage offers, schemes (courting, seduce, and elope specifically), pregnancy, and birth (LMF overrides the vanilla files). A mod that doesn't say it's 100% compatible probably won't conflict with LMF if it doesn't touch any of these areas.
  
  
• Any mod that's a TC (total conversion) likely touches every file in the game and thus won't be compatible. If it even works, you'll have a LOT of issues.

I'll list any here which I'm told work fine or I've personally checked out and found no issue. Just because a mod isn't on this list doesn't mean it isn't compatible, just that it hasn't been checked out.

• Travel the Distance (built-in compatibility, but put TtD higher in the loading order)
  
• Witch Trials
  
• Immersive Writing - Love & Romance
  
• [FSF] Positive Albino Trait
  
• Social Relations Expanded including its add ons
  
• Tor's: No Marriage Alliances
  
• No Marriage Alliances (With Options)
  
• Gamerule Gadget
  
• Better AI Education + Infinite Wards
  
• Community Flavor Pack
  
• Ethnicities & Portraits Expanded
  
• VIET

These are mods which I'm aware of that function, meaning they won't crash, but you're going to have file conflicts - meaning LMF mostly works fine, but either some systems won't work or some of that mod's systems won't work, depending on which mod is lower in the loading order.

• A Game of Thrones [AGOT] - I've added some built-in compatibility with AGOT, so it uses the proper code in marriage acceptance, seduce/court schemes, and pregnancy/birth. So there's no need to put AGOT later in the load order. If you do, LMF's seclusion system for unwed family members will be broken, but not much else. There are various other things which likely don't mesh very well with AGOT, but most of the big ones are now handled.
  
  
• After the End - someone reported this appears to be working fine, but I'll put it in this category because Total Conversion mods tend to replace most vanilla files... so there are likely some conflicts, but they occur under the hood and aren't very obvious.
  
  
• Dark Ages - I'd suggest putting LMF lower in the loading order, unless you don't care about the realistic pregnancy effects. Otherwise, there's very little to conflict here.

• Better Marriage AI - You may think "oh, I'll just add these two marriage-related mods together and get the benefits of both!" These mods cover the exact same ground and the files will conflict in every way. Do NOT use them both.
  
  
• LoTR:Realms in Exile - this apparently breaks pregnancies, on top of other issues. Don't use them together.
  
  
• Female Primary Heir Matrilineal Marriage - These mods affect the exact same files. Don't use them together, period.
  
  
• Landless Opportunities - Playable Courtiers - LMF assumes courtiers to be AI only. The courtier side of events is never covered, and never will be.
  
  
• Real Freedom - Really Landless - As above, playing as a landless character will mean all sorts of weirdness happening without you being informed.
  
  
• Elder Kings 2 - Don't even bother - it will cause a crash.

If you're someone who knows what files are or aren't included in the mod, here's a list of every vanilla file that LMF includes and overrides:

• common\on_action\schemes\court_on_actions.txt ***
  
• common\schemes\court_scheme.txt
  
• common\schemes\elope.scheme.txt
  
• common\schemes\seduce_scheme.txt
  
• events\scheme_events\court_scheme\court_scheme_ongoing_events.txt ***
  
• events\scheme_events\court_scheme\court_scheme_outcome_events.txt ***
  
• events\scheme_events\elope_scheme\elope_scheme_events.txt
  
• events\scheme_events\seduce_scheme\seduce_scheme_outcome_events.txt
  
• events\birth_events.txt
  
• events\bp1_dan_events.txt
  
• events\pregnancy_events.txt ***
  
• events\courtier_guest_management_events\courtier_guest_management_events.txt ***
  
• gui\interaction_marriage_notification_window.gui ***

The ones marked *** are probably the more important files - the others, if you overrode them with another mod, the LMF stuff you're losing is relatively minor.

For the most part, if you have a mod that also includes these, you can make one mod ovverride the other just by including it further down the list in your mod priority. Don't come complaining to me if you do that and LMF doesn't do what you want it to, then, of course.

(Should also be noted that there are MANY vanilla functions which are overridden piecemeal in the common folder, where unlike with events it's possible to single out specific functions and change them rather than including the whole vanilla file -- I'm not going to list them all, but they won't conflict with anything unless the mod weirdly uses the same filenames I did or they also override the same functions.)