I have found that the following mods operate without breaking the main mod:
(This is not a load order, just a list)

Better Barbershop
Better Executions Updated
Better Map Textures 2.0
Better Marriage (AI)
Brighter Attributes
Brighter Map (Ironman)
Children Stay in Court
Fair Ladies
Fair Lords
Family Matters
Immersive Lay with Partner
Infinite Wards
Invite Debutantes
Invite Nobles
leech's cheat
Love Marriage Family
Razer's Cheat Menu
Repair All
Revive Dead House
VIET Events - A Flavor and Immersion Event Mod

Thanks for this!

Ill just call out that the Discord now has a dedicated compatibility channel! I encourage everyone to go there and report all of the mods that do AND dont work!

did some testing on my own

don't:
eat sleep rp events
cultural armies reduct

do:
important reminders
war reparations cb
ai culture conversion
organize levies in wartime
pedagogy enhanced
realistic marraige opinion
no tournament animated screens
historicity
freinds & rivals
name packs expannded
family romance
better battles updated
the headhunter
dynamic regency
rescue and vengeance
lulu's events
advanced character search
revive dead house
raised army coa
pets expanded
regional travel events
search and trade artifacts
holding sprawl
better ai education
etr - expand the realm
fsf positive giant trait
free console access compatible
title manager
better executions updated
nicknames+
fair ladies
fair lords
brigher attributes
ultimatetooltipframework
faster maturity
invite to court plus
medieval climate change
lifestyles improved
automagic architect the lazy lord's construction companion

Originally posted by sameov:

Ill just call out that the Discord now has a dedicated compatibility channel! I encourage everyone to go there and report all of the mods that do AND dont work!

okay, will edit the description of this post to refer to discord :)

Not sure if this is a EPE or Elf Destiny issue, but the customer sliders in ruler designer no longer work when using both. EPE still functions in everything else besides ruler designer. The complexion types still appear in ruler designer, but the custom sliders to not do anything and everything with custom sliders is vanilla. This isn't a big deal for me but I just wanted to let you know! Thank you so much for this mod, it sparked my motivation to play CK3 again (:

Works with Witchcraft mod as well (so far at least). Legendary Mage Elf-lord to conquer the world is extra fun!

EPE might take away the elf ears needs to be tested

Originally posted by salamiimamii514:

Not sure if this is a EPE or Elf Destiny issue, but the customer sliders in ruler designer no longer work when using both. EPE still functions in everything else besides ruler designer. The complexion types still appear in ruler designer, but the custom sliders to not do anything and everything with custom sliders is vanilla. This isn't a big deal for me but I just wanted to let you know! Thank you so much for this mod, it sparked my motivation to play CK3 again (:

I can vouch for this. Not a big deal for me either, but no matter the load order the extra sliders in EPE do not work when this mod is enabled. Tested with EPE only and EPE with Elf w/o any other mods.

Originally posted by ILVIUS:

EPE might take away the elf ears needs to be tested

yes, after epe was updated I've turned it on and elf ears disappeared

With EPE the customer sliders dont work. Is there a compatibility mod?

Originally posted by Roel:

With EPE the customer sliders dont work. Is there a compatibility mod?

You need to load Elf Destiny before EPE. Fixed it for me.

For some reason this mod combined with EPE causes ctd after tapping on "Portrait editor" button in console window. Separately both mods are fine with it.

Found the problematic place. Placed EPE after this mod and modified 2 files: male_head.asset and female_head.asset. Just added at that files lines from same files of this mod (trere are few and author is nice for making them easy-searcheable). Now everything (including portrait editor) works good, as i see.

seems its not compatible with NB - New Bookmarks

https://steamhost.cn/steamcommunity_com/workshop/filedetails/?id=3037967539

The issue is that all traits are not given to the elves

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Its compatible with Asia Expansion Project , i'm using it together with RICE, EPE and CFP
I'm not checked the (EPE) sliders, while i'm just breeding them with my human starter character.