Soooo... I fixed it myself by console commands (i know they said not to) but if done correctly everything works fine. I'm going to list my command steps so if anyone encounters a similar problem they too can get out of this possible game breaking problem.

Note: in this action, in order to complete the last step ALL ELITE GUARDS MUST DIE! This is what completes the current "stage" objective.

#1 enter the console command area with the " ~ " key.

#2 find what quest your on by entering the following command:

showquest.targets

Note: this will display all active quest you have in the game in a really small command window. but the main quest name in falskaar i was on is " FSBQ03 " this is your Quest ID#

#3 find what stage in the quest you are by entering the command:

Get Stage <Quest ID#>

Note: my command would have been

get stage fsbq03

this will display what the numerical code your current objective (could be literally anything)
and write it down if you're an idiot like me who forgets this crap.

the stage which i was stuck at was designated 100.00

#4 find out the next designation in the quest line or "stage" and in doing so you will reveal all of the stage designations. The command for this is: Player.SQS <Quest ID>

Note: My command line was written as:

player.sqs FSBQ03

all of these designations will come with a suffix number value of "0" or "1". 1 means complete 0 means incomplete.

there was only one more "stage" which was designated as 200.00 and was followed by the suffix of 0

#5 Change the "stage" progression of current quest. That means if you have the next "stage" as "0" and you need to finish whatever you got stuck in in the first place to be completed, change it to "1" the command to do this is as follows:

setobjectivecompleted <Quest ID#> <stage> <0,1>

Note: the command used to unscrew my problem was shown like so

setobjectivecompleted FSBQ03 200 1

#6 UNSTICK YOURSELF!!!! simple to do if even in the middle of a cinematic sequence! the command is simple:

enableplayercontrols

Note: using this command give full control back, move around, check your journal, look at your map, kill some guys, WHATEVER YOU USALLY CAN DO IF NOT STUCK. But it will only be you, everyone else will be standing there for the rest of the cinematic or if the cinematic is broken, there until you complete the quest/ next objective.

#7 FINISH THE JOB! If you have to kill everyone in the room, if you have to open a door, if you have to drink a damn potion, do it in the most natural way possible so the game can pick it self back up and run normally. Basically you have just caused SKYRIM INCEPTION to the game itself so let it run normaly and in ignorance of its own flawed nature.

If you have any questions about command lines, i got them here:

http://elderscrolls.wikia.com/wiki/Console_Commands_%28Skyrim%29

I figured it out my damn self, so can you if you care enough. but if you are REALLY stuck ask the content creator. All i did was guide the way the game runs itself, this has nothing to do with the Mod, nor does it have anything to do with the scripting of SKYRIM overall.

I hope at least this helps someone.