So here I am, some 700 days into the game.

Former Marshall of the Kingdom of Rhodok, Princeps class, 1400 renown, a weekly net income of 25000 florins, three towns and a village to my name.

And I swear I spend every moment in the game running from siege to siege to defend my holdings against daily hosts of 1000+ men. Where do they even get them from? I've swept out every town village and tavern, and even with top medical staff and ample use of Numpad 6, my people keep dying - so do the enemies, and those even faster, but they seem to have no problem replenishing.

It'd be easier if my peers actually organized when on Campaign, but the last time I was Marshal nobody came (not even my so-called friends), so I resigned. And now still, campaigns are just the new Marshall and two goons riding around the realm, seeing the thousands-strong enemy army and going home to leave me along with them.

We're at war with Swadia. We have three times as many towns as them. We can't reinforce for ♥♥♥♥.

What's going on here and how do I fix it?