Not true, thousands of people use both mods and i do so, too. But i know your problem. Do i get it right that all your S+ structures faded on your SP game / Server? Thats caused indirectly by an mod update, after you start your game and join your server _too fast without letting the mod installl correctly_ (see corner buttom left for "installing... text"). This causes your structures to fade cause S+ install was cancelled due your fast join. Had the same problem. The only thing you can do then is to reload an older savegame.

Nope, I have tried several times now to get both mods to run and they just refuse to
It's gotten now that only s+ will load
I do usually wait for mods to install so i doubt that's what happened (but i wont say it cant be. Human error and all that)

it maybe your load order put S+ mods above this mod and it will load just fine i have both of them loaded and in game right now as i am typing this i all ways put S+ mods above everything beside Rehud it must all ways go on top