We need a button to prevent the IA break alliances with the player as well vassals.

@Exosus - Yea no the asskit is kinda... ass.
Sure thing, go for it!

@Andredie yea appearently you arent supposed to use the asskit to start with.. wasted quite a bit of time on that and now I feel like I can actually do something. Thanks a lot!

Could I upload my edited version with proper credit?

@Exosus - If you pull the file out of the workshop folder, put it into your data folder, and rename it, you can make the edits.

@Andredie Oh I thought I could edit your mod for myself but guess that isnt possible. But now that I know it is possible there is no reason not to just learn to do it all myself :)

@Andredie awesome, thank you!

@Exosus - It removes the option entirely in the diplomacy screen, so they can't offer it amongst themselves, nor to the player.
Only restricting AI-to-player diplomacy isn't very hard, just replacing the second "all" in line 7 with "faction:"..player should do it, if I remember correctly.

@Andredie Oh I thought this also means they can no longer make alliances/join war amongst themselves, which is something I wouldnt want.

@Exosus - I'm not quite sure what you mean, preventing the AI from requesting you join wars is exactly what this mod does, and military alliances for the other one. I had the same issue, which is why I made them.
Do they not work for you?
And what do you mean if I have "the right levers"?

@Andredie would it be difficult to edit in that AI doesnt ask me to join wars/ for military alliances? Every single game they keep pesting me until I finally give in an find myself at war with a bunch of factions they never really intended to fight anyway.

I can make the edits myself, I just need to know whether you have the right levers before I get into modding this game.

@Leaf - It shouldn't affect vassals, as they join directly through a war declaration.
Both versions disable the feature for the AI, this version still allows the player to do it, and the other doesn't.

also which one of these will disable AI asking me to join their war at a faction?

will this affect vassals declaring war to those the player is at war with?