I can get married once but then no one allows me to accept the proposal to someone else that happens

@ 东宫门里伏金剑

Does it also solve the -1000 polygamous marriage acceptance bug?

@bboy_damo

I did it and although it fixed the harem mechanics it still has the marriage acceptance bug

The RICE conflict is really easy to fix. In the RICE file common/scripted trigger/j_khd01_RICE_marriage_triggers.txt
comment out
#accepts_polygamy = {
# OR = {
# culture = { has_cultural_tradition = tradition_polygamous }
# faith = { has_doctrine = doctrine_polygamy }
# }
#}

#accepts_concubinage = {
# OR = {
# culture = { has_cultural_tradition = tradition_concubines }
# faith = { has_doctrine = doctrine_concubines }
# }
#}

and add this at the bottom
# from Harem Politics
accepts_polygamy = {
OR = {
faith = { has_doctrine_parameter = allows_polygamy }
culture = { has_cultural_parameter = allows_polygamy }
}
NOT = {
culture = {
has_cultural_tradition = tradition_monogamous
}
}
}

accepts_concubinage = {
OR = {
faith = { has_doctrine_parameter = allows_concubinage }
culture = { has_cultural_parameter = allows_concubinage }
}
NOT = {
culture = {
has_cultural_tradition = tradition_monogamous
}
}
}

The incompatibility with RICE is probably not TRIGGER, when Harem Politics, Polytheism Reborn and RICE are used together, the Harem Politics function works fine.

@SK.Skiter it’s not compatible with AGOT at the moment. I’m prioritizing an update for later this month before I start working on compatches. I’ll be announcing more news on the Discord server 😇

AGOT compatible?

@Coglims It sounds like there might be a conflict with another mod. Which other mods you’re using? That’ll help me narrow it down

I'm trying to arrange marriages as an ashari muslim yet I face "recipient's faith doesnt allow polygamous -1000" modifier despite all parties being ashari.

when do you think you will fix compatibility with rice

@Sledjer you're right! I hadn't noticed that trigger before. But I still wonder why the load order won't have any effect. That has complicated my mod's integration with RICE

@Coglims unfortunately, any mod that introduces new faiths will be in conflict with Harem politics. It's a bit hard to make a version that'll be generally compatible with other mods. I'm trying to make one, but I don't think it'll be compatible with every mod 😢

Unfortunately this mod is incompatible with RICE, because it has its own entries for accepts_polygamy and accepts_concubinage that forcibly take priority over this mod regardless of load order and don't respect the new allows_polygamy and allows_concubinage triggers.

It's not compatible with Old Gods Expanded. Hope someone creates a patch :(

I just joined the discord. I was able to get the bride show to work as a tribal ruler, but not as a clan or feudal ruler. I can post screenshots after I get back from work

@Rakdos72 that's strange. Could you contact me on Discord?

Feudal for me and vassals. I saw the requirement for non-republic or theocratic vassals, it was always met. I tried as a duke, king, and emperor.

@Rakdos72 Thanks for the info! What’s your government type and the government type of your non-powerful vassals?

The decision appears, but the final condition about having the appropriate amount of vassals can never be satisfied. Even when I have many more than three non-powerful count vassals, the checkbox remains unfilled.

@Rakdow72 hey there. That’s strange. Does the decision appear, or you can’t see it at all?

Bride Show decision might be borked, I can't get it to work even with all other mods disabled.

@两只水饺跳过去 Thanks for the feedback! I tested the Offer Concubine interaction with the 867 Viking start and it seems to work in my games. What are the other mods you're using? That might help identify any conflicts.

As for RICE, I haven’t found any overlapping files, but for some reason the two still don’t work together. I’m still looking into it. If anyone finds the cause, I’d love to know!

Hello! I’ve noticed while playing the 867 Viking start that the “Offer Concubine” interaction is missing from character interactions. After some troubleshooting, I found that your mod seems to be causing this issue, as disabling it resolved the problem. I’m not sure if this is due to a recent change you made to the mod, so I thought I’d ask for clarification.
Also, I saw that your mod might not be compatible with RICE? That’s a bit disappointing, as I can barely bring myself to play without RICE, lol. Could this issue (if it’s a bug) be related to RICE? Apologies for not testing this further myself. Thank you for your hard work and any insights you can provide!
Sorry, my English isn’t very fluent. This comment was translated using GPT.

ahh was thinking that was a bug, thanks for clarifying man

@Crack Jack That’s actually a feature. This mod separates marriage and concubinage doctrines, so characters can have both spouses and concubines. You can customize this in the Harem Politics game rules at the start of the game 😊

having a small problem where they can have both concubines and secondary spouses

@gurukof Yes, the main mod edits the character UI, but there’s a UI-free version for compatibility with UI overhauls (see above in the notes).

The blasphemous marriage malus only appears if the consort doesn’t accept polygamy or concubinage

does this mod conflict or need UI overhauls?

also is there any way to get rid of the blaphemous marriage opinion Malus?

@starfarts Thanks! Just to clarify, most features (favor system, events, demotions, etc.) work for all rulers. Only the Grand Consort court position is restricted to kings+, since it's inspired by Imperial China's Noble Consort rank. Lower tiers still get plenty of harem drama! 😊

Looks great, subbing now. But why restrict this to high-tier rulers? Let us tall players enjoy good stuff too!

When this gets AGOT compatabilty, it will complete my ideal harem of mods!

@bxyteqrs149 Hi. Unfortunately, RICE and my mod aren’t compatible. They don’t have any conflicting files, yet I haven’t found the cause for the incompatibility 🫤

is this mod compatible with RICE and the expanded series and if it is, is then a specific load order it should be in?

@CS Sure! Go ahead. That'll be interesting 😃

@Raiskyl 热恋中 well, characters with Sadistic, Callous and Ambitious traits are more likely to murder rival consorts. But Matilda doesn't have any of those traits. I am not sure now if my mod makes her do it 😳

would it be ok to use any features from this mod in my project?

Damn, it does explain now… ig? My dear wifey literally wiped out whole squads like nothing. Matilda of Toscana doesn’t play around 💔

I send you a dm it is a long messege and bs about coding

@Raiskyl 热恋中 if many of your consorts are mysteriously dying, it’s 99% likely that it’s because of this mod 😅 if she has traits like sadistic, ambitious, or callous, she probably doesn’t want any competition. I just hope your next in line isn’t someone else’s child too 🤷🏽‍♂️

@TurtleShroom the mod will only work if either your religion or your culture allows you to have either many spouses, many concubines, or both. It won’t affect monogamous courts

Calyver mind if I ask if my wifey will try to murder each others (as part of the Court Drama)? Matilda happened to slaughtered my others spouses lol, cant do shit bcs I love her

Just to be clear, this Mod only works with religions that accept concubines or polygamy, right?

@Unstable Energy Hi. For now, this mod isn't compatible with total conversion mods. However, I'm working on a version that should be compatible with most total conversion mods out there

@YoungLion07 Hi. In my mod, marriage and concubinage traditions are separated, so you can mix and match different consort limits. Do you mean you'd like to see the doctrine for 4 concubines?

@無壹 thank you so much for your contribution! The link has been adde 😊

@calyver Greeting calyver ! I have finished Chinese translation for you, could you please add this link in descrption: https://steamhost.cn/steamcommunity_com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=3489122344

@calyver
thx for the update!

one last thing can you add back the marrige tradishon from that allow
4 spuses + 4 concubines from "Harem Doctrines"

p.s
I saw your replay about total conversion mods, cant wait :)

Does this work with AGOT or other overhauls?

@ollied105 making this mod with total conversions mod is in my waiting list. Now that the game is more stable, I could work on that. However, I can’t give a specific date yet

@Bored and Depressed Unfortunately, my mod is incompatible with UI overhauls. The way it shows consorts is different, although you could manually delete the character_windwow file. Maybe there would still be issues with the Harem tab.

Regarding marriage doctrines, my mod is not compatible with other mod that affects them. However, it shouldn’t affect the Grand Consort position. Are you playing as a king+ with appropriate government?